Comments on: Ten Tips for Divorcing Parents http://www.divorcecdfa.com/2009/07/ten-tips-for-divorcing-parents/ Certified Divorce Financial Analyst | Call (502) 439-9828 Wed, 05 Aug 2009 14:34:58 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.5 hourly 1 By: paul http://www.divorcecdfa.com/2009/07/ten-tips-for-divorcing-parents/comment-page-1/#comment-9 paul Wed, 05 Aug 2009 14:30:32 +0000 http://www.divorcecdfa.com/?p=85#comment-9 I know that in the divorce classes we took they suggest 4-6 months of dating before introducing the children to a boyfriend/girlfriend. Then they say just tell the kids it's your friend and they will most likely understand. The point is, don't get into too much information with them. The father probably should not have introduced the lady as his "girlfriend", depending on how old the child is, this probably sounded scary to them. I'm just a dad, no expert. I don't think there is anything you can do unless there are particular problems with the introduction. Just pray that your former spouse uses better judgement and thinks about your child next time :) I know that in the divorce classes we took they suggest 4-6 months of dating before introducing the children to a boyfriend/girlfriend. Then they say just tell the kids it’s your friend and they will most likely understand. The point is, don’t get into too much information with them. The father probably should not have introduced the lady as his “girlfriend”, depending on how old the child is, this probably sounded scary to them. I’m just a dad, no expert.
I don’t think there is anything you can do unless there are particular problems with the introduction. Just pray that your former spouse uses better judgement and thinks about your child next time :)

]]> By: Phillip Thomas http://www.divorcecdfa.com/2009/07/ten-tips-for-divorcing-parents/comment-page-1/#comment-7 Phillip Thomas Mon, 03 Aug 2009 19:44:12 +0000 http://www.divorcecdfa.com/?p=85#comment-7 Wish we have known about the spot on TV We missed it wondering if we could get a tape of it? Question: What should the other parent do when the father forces the child to meet the girl friend, when the child doesn't want to meet the lady? Wish we have known about the spot on TV
We missed it wondering if we could get a tape of it?
Question: What should the other parent do when the father
forces the child to meet the girl friend, when the child doesn’t
want to meet the lady?

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